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Awareness: Sexual Abuse

Here's an incredible link if you want to be more informed on the topic of sexual abuse. Whether you were a victim at one point, you know someone that has gone through sexual abuse, or just want more information on the subject, please check it out because every little bit helps.

http://angelwingspublications.com/index.html

The artistry of B. Fields....

I've come across this lovely young lady who is very talented and is not afraid to try her hand at all things she love. She's a makeup artist, A photographer, a model, a writer , and she plays the piano. Whew! the girl got talent check out her website and if you love what she does reach out to her or you can hit me up and i'll be glad to play messenger...just don't shoot me :)

http://crashandblend.com/

21 Questions

Questions. Questions. Questions. Oh how i hate them. I hate being questioned. I hate asking questions. Its just a BIG problem i have. Its even more annoying when your involved with someone and they constantly ask you questions. Like wtf mind your business!! Nah jus playing. but seriously though i hate questions. Guys I've talked to expressed to me that if i ever had a question to ask i could just ask them and they'd let me know straight up. But come on be for real, I'm not asking you shit. and even if i did what are the chances that you would be 100% truthful? Honestly there's 2 reasons why i don't like questioning others. 1) I don't trust what many people say and there's a good chance that you'll lie to me and i HATE liars 2) most of the time i don't want to know anyway cause the answer to my question may not be something i want to hear. Some say well wouldn't you rather know than not know? You may have a point but i feel like if i know something bad i will constantly be bothered by it. I'm the type to always want to bring it up. I would try use it in every situation we will encounter. To me, its better to just avoid conflict and just go on with our situation with my head a little clear. I mean yea i already make up my assumptions about people, but there's a 50/50 chance that my assumptions may be wrong. The truth is never a lie or a figment of my imagination...

Number One Sex Vid...

She is...

All She wanted in life was to be loved. A girl so alone, everyone wondered about her. Wondered about her frown. Reasoned behind her smile. Read into her mind. Guessed about her life. So much pain she endured this girl. No one can even begin to imagine she says... You ever feel suffocated. So suffocated you almost believe that you can't breathe? You feel boxed in.... can't get out?Her suffocation comes from hurt. pain. loneliness. She fights though. She doesn't let life's struggles weigh her down. She's a fighter... (This particular girl could be you. It could any woman in your life. never underestimate the life she's been through cause you really have no idea. everyone has a story, some harder than others but just know that you don't have to be a victim of your past ladies... you're a product of your future. Life is definitely what you make it!)

Who's 2 Blame??

I don't know what it is but i, like most women, like to argue. I don't know if it is the thrill of "you get mad. I get mad" or the "I'm sorry baby Muah Muah forgive me" but it just happens all the time with pretty much every guy i have dealt with. Even male friends i constantly bicker with them. A lot of guys if not all will say women are the cause of 99% of arguments started in relationships but come on fellas you have to take credit for some of the dumb shit you do to spark up these fights. I admit females do like to scream and shout about nothing in particular and we do get jealous and insecure often but i mean can you really blame us half the time? If you're constantly messing up or doing things you have no business doing, what are we supposed to do ? Sit back and take it? NOOOOO. We're gonna let you know how we feel. Of course when we express our disgust toward a situation we're automatically complaining which is not true we're just not happy with what's going on at the present time... So that last statement would be such an opener for an asshole to say " you women are never happy! So hard to satisfy you !" Blah blah blahhhhhhh. Men need to just stop making excuses for why they're not doing better. JUST DO BETTER! It is not so much to ask for to be courteous to your girl or to have some sort of respect for her. that's what it all boils down to thinking about your partner and not just you because that's just selfish. and face it selfish acts don't get you too far in life. Think about it. If women have nothing to argue or complain about men would be able to sleep better at night. It takes less energy to make peace than to make war . This doesn't mean though that guys are all to blame, females do just fight about the dumbest and little things but with teamwork and communication this is a problem that can and should be solved.

Label Me

I had a discussion with my friends the other day about labels in relationships. A lot of girls and guys in my age group are into this trend of not wanting to be in a relationship. They just want to have their options out there and chill. So my question to this is does people without the infamous boyfriend/girlfriend label have less rules, boundaries and privileges than someone who is a boyfriend/girlfriend? In my opinion i feel like a label on your relationship is important for the simple fact that people outside of it have to respect if your a boyfriend or girlfriend. I mean not all have a level of respect for relationships but at the end of the day they can never question whether or not that individual is involved with someone exclusively. With a Label comes rules and boundaries that is much needed in any relationship. People need to know there places and when and if they can cross it. When you're just "talking" to someone you really have no say as to what goes on in the other persons personal business. You just have to deal with whatever comes with them. The other guys. the other girls. No protests. No complaints. Having a title as boyfriend/girlfriend is something that i would feel 100% comfortable with. I mean anything can happen but its just such a comforting feeling to know "yea that's MY man" lol. At the end of the day any form of relationship should have an understanding between the two people involved and no one should be confused about what kind of label they contain.

When the Money Goes...

ModMz Post On Yours Truly...

Hey guys! Twitter has allowed me to meet so much interesting and great people and Ms. Shy Morris is one of them. She reached out to me on twitter explaining an idea she had for a post on her blog and i thought it was awesome and of course participated. I expressed some difficult things to her but i felt confident in knowing that my message would get across to other young mothers like myself... check me out and show love on Shy's blog as well, she has some great reads.

http://modmz.com/2009/08/08/she-will-not-lose/comment-page-1/#comment-5

For All My Fall-Lovin Fashionistas...

Fall has to be the most fashionable season in my opinion...not too hot not too cold, you can rock out your personal style without layering too much or baring too little... If you agree you'd love these looks featured on WWD...
http://www.whowhatwear.com/website/full-article/look-forward-to-fall-fashion-trends/