Monday, March 30, 2009

LEAVE ME ALONE!!! When is it ever nice?

In many conversations that I've had with my friends we always talked about when to tell someone to leave you alone and how to say it (or how not to say it). I for one am a really impatient person and get easily frustrated by someones annoyance. I really don't understand why someone has to keep up their stupidity knowing that it's upsetting and that they really should stop. For example, on several occasions I've came across a guy who decides that they want to call me a hundred million times after i didn't answer the first time and then want to text me a good ten times after that AND also hit me up on AIM or BBM. If i ignored and didn't hit you back what makes you think harassing me is gonna get me to pick up the phone. If i do pick up however expect an attitude or a cursing out cause i don't have time for the pestering. NOW as for telling someone politely to leave you alone, i don't think there's a right way to tell someone that but its just the way you go about it. Explaining to the person your reason for not wanting to deal with them and being upfront and honest minus all the rudeness and disrespect may result in a better outcome and you may get your wish. As for all the harrassers out there get a clue and move on, if and when the person is ready to speak to you let them do it at there own will not yours.

Friends...Without Benefits??

I have this theory that a guy or girl cannot have a consistent friendship without some sort of feelings forming into something beyond just being friends. You may say this is not true, you have plenty of friends of the opposite sex and you just see them as that, a friend. But just because you don't like your friend beyond what you guys have doesn't mean that person isn't thinking differently. I have had plenty of male friends that resulted in either me liking them, them liking me or us liking each other consensually. I find that when i do try and take the friendship a step further it always fails me (lol). Don't get me wrong I've heard that the best relationships start off as great friendships and by all means if you think you've found a good partner in your best friend go for it. But please bear in mind that if perhaps it were to never work out, It will NEVER be the same again.

Friday, March 27, 2009

Gilt Groupe Sale







Smashbox

Don't miss Smashbox, our first color cosmetics sale! From lipgloss wands and blush kits to eye shadow ensembles and more, these unique sets and one-of-a-kind combinations will suit all of your makeup needs.



Converse John Varvatos Women's

With one of the most recognized names in fashion, Converse has an unsurpassed reputation for American casual cool. Relaxed yet hip, don't miss this selection of cool weather essentials as well as must-have pieces from the Spring '09 collection.


Costume National RTW

Known for architectural precision and innovative interpretations of the classics, Costume National is an Italian fashion house with some of today's hottest blazers, dresses blouses and more.


Costume National Shoes

Costume National is celebrated for heralding the "new Italian design" movement and this collection of ultra-modern styles demonstrates why. Slip into this assortment of sculpted heels, sexy sandals and luxe leather boots to keep chic from day to night.


Costume National Homme

Known for architectural precision and innovative interpretations of the classics, Costume National is an Italian fashion house with a collection of must-have denim, modern tailored suiting, sleek shoes and timeless outerwear.

Invite Friends to Gilt Groupe, Get $25

Invite friends to Gilt Groupe and get a $25 account credit when they make their first purchase. They can use your Personal Invitation Link to register: http://www.gilt.com/invite/laceywatts. Or send invitations from Gilt.com by clicking here

Food for thought

ladies & gents! … STOP looking down on people, turning your nose…. thinking that YOUR SHIT DOES NOT STINK!!! because EVERYONE’S shit stinks! because you have a job, you THINK yours smell a little better??? NOPE, you’re a pay check away from being broke or **lucky you** maybe even a FEW pay checks away….in any case, COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS and HUMBLE YOURSELF!! don’t laugh @ the people you see collecting bottles to redeem for money! you could always be those people !

much love,
ms.crochran

Food for thought

Ladies… always remember that the same way you get a man; you will lose him! NOT meaning that your going to lose every man you get and be single and lonely... :-)… NOT AT ALL**meaning**- … if you meet a man and he tells you I have a girl … BUT… I still want to kick it with you………… then nothing good will come out of you guys relationship. Be SURPRISED if YOU LEAVE WITHOUT: std’s, abortions or worst case a baby! yes.. WORST CASE!!! your body is your temple ladies, take much pride in it…MIND who you share it with, make sure he deserves it!

much love,
Ms.crochran

btw: what are some great ways, if any to score a good man???

Thursday, March 26, 2009

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Men on The Downlow....Is It More Common Than We Thought???

Something has been really bugging my brain... Umm what's up with these men and there double or better yet triple lives? Men are becoming more down with the thought of sneaking around on their girlfriends with OTHER MEN! Oh gosh it just makes me shudder to think about it. Don't get me wrong i have no problem with gays or lesbians, to each it's own i have both gay and lesbian friends BUT i do have a problem with guys trying to portray themselves as straight when in all actuality they like other men also. They lie to us women and con us into thinking their all about women but their all about men too. This troubles me because these men are having intercourse with the guys without protection which TA DA may result in contracting HIV/ AIDS, this is not a good thing obviously because not only are they not conscience of their health, they go and have sex with their female counterparts WITHOUT condoms as well... I feel so bad for the things us ladies have to endure because now we not only have to worry about our man sleeping with another woman but him sleeping with another man as well. Some of you may be thinking no not my man but its a common thing ladies and no one should be overlooked just because you think you know them well... I worry about how far this trend will go and how we are not very open to the fact that this may be happening around us. I pray for our children growing up in this new generation and hope these types of things do not catch up to my friends and family members and most importantly my daughter. Remember ladies men are deceitful, they know how to manipulate us... Be weary and most importantly get tested and WRAP IT UP!!!!

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

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So everyone that knows me knows that i'm a makeup freak, a nail polish fiend and fashion whore as a result my yahoo inbox has over 80,000 emails ( yes you read right). I will be sharing with my peeps the latest in EVERYTHING. With that said ...

Who What Wear has expressed their love of Cropped Boots and shared some styles my fellow fashionistas may love

http://www.whowhatwear.com/website/full-article/how-they-wear-cropped-boots/

For All The Big Gamers...

http://videogames.yahoo.com/feature/new-tech-could-make-consoles-obsolete/1299562

Will Guys Ever Love With Their Hearts & Not Their Strengths??

I don't understand how guys have so much power over us ladies... They can make you feel on top of the world in one moment and at the bottom of the barrel the next... They can turn our world upside down and in just a second right side up again... If a man is gonna control me I want him to control me with his love and not with his ego... I want him to stop and listen to what i have to say... I want him to feel with his heart and see with his soul... I want to feel sexy by his strength not afraid of it... I want to look into his eyes and know everything will be fine, I'll be alright... I don't want another impostor... I want the real thing...that real thing called LOVE

What Is Your Purpose?

Do you know what I wonder? What are the purposes of some people in our lives? I mean there's people that come and go and then there are some that NEVER leave (lol) but then there are also the ones that leave for a little while and then come back, and when they do come back their more significant than they were before. I question the individuals in my life everyday and ask myself what is their purpose? Why are they in my life? What's the point? Sometimes i mean what's the point in a mean, hurtful way (hey people piss me off !!) and other times i really just want God to show why some are more special than others to me. Life is a journey filled with obstacles and learned lessons and the people in our lives should come as blessings and they should always provide helping hands to help us climb to the top. Yes there are plenty who would love to push you down but do as Jay says and DUST YOUR SHOULDERS OFF!!!

Hi World!!!!

Okay so I've been putting off starting a blog for MONTHS and now Victoria is here!!!! I have lots to show you and tons to get off my chest so with that said let the blogging BEGIN!!!