Being Single Vs. Being In A Relationship

SO I've been single for quite a while now, the longest I've ever been single actually... 9 months and counting. No there's nothing wrong with me why i don't have a man in my life it's just my own feelings i have at the moment. Since I've been single 3 guys have tried to cuff me but I just don't want to jump into a relationship where I'm not 100% right about it. People ask me all the time do i like being single or do i miss having a boyfriend and honestly I'm 50/50 on the topic. I miss the comforting feeling of having someone to kiss, hug, hold, talk to about EVERYTHING. I miss having a partner, a best friend, i miss being someones girl. Then again i like being single because i have the freedom to do what i want, i can talk to a couple of guys at one time without being a cheater or without feeling guilty, i have more time for ME, Maddi and my friends, I'm having way more fun, and honestly I'm a little more stress free. I often ask a lot of my friends if they prefer being with someone versus being alone and frankly NO ONE likes the feeling of being lonely, especially me, so i guess that's why a lot of people just settle for being a jump off or settle for the emotionally challenged relationships instead of just taking time out to know who you are and what you want. I guess that's what I'm doing right now just sitting waiting for my time to come where i can say yea i was single and happy for a while but you know what I'm in a relationship and happier... ( cheesy but fck it i believe in fairy tales)

Fresh Vid: "Throw It In The Bag"

Fed up

I know I'm supposed to be writing about Miami but I'm not in the mood for that shit...
I'm fed up with a lot of people and their games. I honestly feel like crawling into my hole for another year or so and return when all the bullshit and childish games stop. Honestly men over the age 0f 21 grow the fuck up and be real. Lying to a girl just to get what you want doesn't get u any cool points your just a herb. If u tell a girl like it is all honesty and she accepts it then Ur the "man". 3 years ago i messed with this dude, i really digged him like OD liked him but of course he didn't want a girlfriend and i didn't want to have sex with him PLUS he was away at school so he stopped fucking with me. I'm talking about out of the blue stopped calling me, didn't answer my calls, etc... Instead of being honest and telling me what it is he wanted nigga ran away cause he felt it was "getting too serious" UGH! There's more to this story a year later but we're not even gonna get into that. My point is FELLAS MAN THE FUCK UP AND BE REAL ABOUT YOURS!!!!! I'm too through and too tired of guys tryna gee me with their "i really like yous" "your the only girl that I'm fucking with right nows" "you should feel specials" among other countless statements and remarks that really don't mean shit to me...Less talking and more action

Miss Blacc is Back...

I've been neglecting my blog due to stress and lack of inspiration but after an awesome trip to Miami and a few changes to my life, i've got my Mojo back lol. OMG! is all i can say right now be back a little later with a full report,or at least somewhat of a report, of what was going down in MIA...I may have some flicks too ;-)

Rick Ross ft The Dream