Phone Check!!!

This was a topic on twitter a few days... why do girls go through their mans phone? Someone said it was a females instinct but i have to disagree with that. My first instinct when seeing my man;s phone would not to jump right at it and snoop through it. I think it has more to do with trust. If you've dealt with your guy cheating and trying to pursue other women of course you're gonna want to try and find evidence of the matter and what better way to find it then looking through the one thing that can hold all secrets of infidelity...his jack. I've done it, some of my friends did it... we all have been guilty even the guys! Being insecure is also a major player in this situation if you're not confident in yourself or in your relationship how would it ever work if you're constantly fussing and fighting about what might of happened, what did happen and what may happen. I think once men and women are honest with each other about what they want and what they're trying to do we can find ourselves in a happier place with our relationships.