Will Guys Ever Love With Their Hearts & Not Their Strengths??

I don't understand how guys have so much power over us ladies... They can make you feel on top of the world in one moment and at the bottom of the barrel the next... They can turn our world upside down and in just a second right side up again... If a man is gonna control me I want him to control me with his love and not with his ego... I want him to stop and listen to what i have to say... I want him to feel with his heart and see with his soul... I want to feel sexy by his strength not afraid of it... I want to look into his eyes and know everything will be fine, I'll be alright... I don't want another impostor... I want the real thing...that real thing called LOVE